WARE: Michael S. Soja, 58, of Ware, passed away unexpectedly, on Tuesday, August 11, 2026. He leaves behind his beloved wife and best friend of 12 years, Nikki Soja; along with their two precious daughters, Lilliana Rylee Soja and Everleigh Summer Soja of Ware,MA; a stepdaughter Kelsie Nimtz and her husband Jared, of Greenfield, MA; his mother Judith Letourneau of Amherst, MA; his sisters, Lynne Soja-Getek and her husband Ryan, of San Diego and Maria Soja of Shrewsbury, MA; and his nephew Luke Hanson of East Longmeadow, MA. Michael is predeceased by his daughter Lailyn Soja and his father William J. Soja. 

A lifelong resident of Ware, Michael was a dedicated employee and valued colleague at UMASS Amherst for more than 20 years, serving in various capacities, most recently as the President of AFSCME local 1776. Beyond work, Michael enjoyed spending time outdoors and took great pride in caring for and maintaining the home he created for his family. More than anything, he treasured the time he spent with those he cared about and loved. 

Michael enjoyed traveling with Nikki and was so happy to finally make it out of the country with her, not once, but twice. One of his favorite places to be was at the beach, where he spent many days enjoying sunrises and sunsets, and playing in the waves with his girls. Michael loved to cook and was especially known for making his meatballs. Music was also a big part of his life. He loved singing along to his favorite songs in the car, beside a great fire, and with his girls at home, often pulling Nikki into the kitchen to dance with him. 

Over the years, Michael enjoyed attending many concerts and live music events with family and friends, making memories with the people who meant the most to him. Michael will be remembered by those who knew and loved him as someone who genuinely cared about others and was always willing to help. He had a way of encouraging those around him to look on the bright side, offering support and positivity when they needed it most. His love for his family, his caring nature, and the way he showed up for the people in his life will be deeply missed. 

There will be a brief calling hour for Michael from 10:00am-11:00am in All Saints Church, 17 North Street, Ware, MA 01082 on Saturday, August 22, 2026, with a Funeral Mass to follow at 11am.  Burial will be held privately. 

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the: Lilliana and Everleigh Soja Fund.