Patricia (Clow) White - beloved wife, devoted mother, and spirited soul, lived a life rich in warmth, curiosity, and an unmistakable zest for connection. To know Patti was to be welcomed, loved, and often delightfully entertained. She leaves behind a loving family who will forever cherish her laughter and love: her devoted husband of 65 years, Frank; their children, Eric, Donna, Jeff, and Kathy; three grandchildren, four step-grandchildren, and seven great-grandchildren, all of whom were touched by her boundless affection.

Patti and Frank’s story began as teens, during the many summers they worked at the vacation resort Allen A in Wolfeboro, New Hampshire. Their meeting blossomed into a lifelong partnership filled with humor, devotion, and shared love.

A dedicated elementary school teacher, Patti spent her career shaping young minds with patience, creativity, and a genuine belief in every child’s potential. Her classroom was more than a place of learning, it was a haven of encouragement, laughter, and discovery. She had that rare ability to make each student feel seen, heard, and capable, leaving a lasting imprint that extended far beyond their school years.

At home, Patti’s nurturing spirit extended to her love of animals, especially her different dogs. Through the years, she was the proud and joyful “den mother” to a host of hounds – including goldens, Bernese, black shepherds, and affectionate mutts. Each one was special to her, and her home was usually filled with wagging tails and wet tongues.

Patti also found joy in the stories hidden within antiques. Whether collecting or selling at her Sturbridge booth, she delighted in the history and character of each piece. She had an eye for the unique and a passion for preserving the past, and she was eager to share the tales behind her treasures with anyone willing to listen.

Of all the seasons, Halloween held a special place in her heart. Each year, she transformed her home into a delightfully spooky spectacle, welcoming neighbors, families and even the dogs into her world of playful tricks or treats. Dressed as a witch, she fully embraced the mischief and magic of the night, while Frank stood near the treasure chest of candy reminding trick-or-treaters: “only take one piece.”

Known for her vibrant personality, Patti enjoyed music, dancing, and above all, conversation. A proud and joyful chatterbox, she loved engaging, expressive, and passionate stories. And when something truly delighted her, she would lift her arms overhead in a triumphant circle, and exclaim, “Standing O!” – a gesture of deep appreciation.

Donations in lieu of flowers may be made to the in Patti’s name to the Worcester Animal Rescue League at www.worcesterarl.org/donate.

Calling hours are 5 to 7 pm on Thursday, May 28 at Varnum Funeral Home, 43 East Main Street, West Brookfield, MA. A graveside service will be held privately at Pine Grove Cemetery in West Brookfield.

Her legacy is one of love freely given, generous laughter, and a life fully lived with wholehearted enthusiasm. Patti will be deeply missed, fondly remembered, and forever celebrated by all who had the privilege of knowing her. Please visit Patti’s memorial page at varnumfuneralhome.com for expressions of sympathy.