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Henrietta L. (Spence) Devlin

June 24, 1942 ~ November 1, 2023 (age 81) 81 Years Old

Henrietta Devlin Obituary

Henrietta L. (Spence) Devlin, 81, of Ware, passed away on Wednesday, November 1, 2023 at home surrounded by her family.


She leaves her daughter, Kelly Cartier and her husband Rich of Leicester, her daughter, Tracy Lotko of Cheshire, CT, her son, Ryan Devlin and his wife Michelle, and her grandchildren, Michaela Cartier, John Lotko IV, Michael Devlin, and James Devlin. She was also very close to her family across the pond in Scotland. Sharing many fun adventures with her cousin Anna Patterson and her Scottish nieces and nephews. Henrietta was predeceased by her loving husband, Michael J. Devlin in 1984, her son in-law, Jack Lotko, and her sisters, Myra Edment and Jean McLevy. She was born in Perth, Scotland, daughter of the late William and Jean (Robertson) Spence.


Henrietta was the Daycare Director/ Front Desk Receptionist at the former Valley Human Services for 32 years, before retiring. She also served as the past Chairman of the Board for the Ware Housing Authority.


She enjoyed playing Bingo and watching a good game of tennis, especially with her favorite player, Andy Murray. She had a special love for knitting, crocheting, sewing, crafting and found joy in gifting her creations.


A Funeral Service for Henrietta will be held on Saturday, November 4, 2023 at 11am in the Charbonneau Funeral Home, 30 Pleasant Street, in Ware.  Calling hours will be held prior to the funeral service, from 9 to 11am.  Burial will be in New St. William Cemetery.  In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to The Cove Center for Grieving Children, 1113 A South Main Street, Cheshire, CT 06410 or by visiting


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Calling Hours
November 4, 2023

9:00 AM to 11:00 AM
Charbonneau Funeral Home
30 Pleasant Street
Ware, MA 01082

Funeral Service
November 4, 2023

11:00 AM
Charbonneau Funeral Home
30 Pleasant Street
Ware, MA 01082

November 4, 2023

New St. William Cemetery
Main Street
Ware, MA 01082


The Cove Center for Grieving Children
1113 A South Main Street, Cheshire CT 06410


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